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what’s not meant for you will disappoint you thousand times until you understand

  Patience is something we’re taught again and again — in how we move through life, how we treat others, and how we sit with the challenges we’re given. It took me a long time to understand this. I used to get so disheartened when things didnt go to plan in my head. I’m human at the end of the day, so of course I feel overwhelmed at times. I’ve learnt how to control it, but I’m also realising that suppressing emotions isn’t always the answer. Sometimes everything you hold in finds its way out when you least expect it. What I’ve learned is this : people, plans, and the tasks of this world will disappoint you no matter what. Not everything is meant to stay, no matter how much you want it to. And the sooner you accept it, the lighter life begins to feel. The real lesson isn’t avoiding disappointments — its learning how to manage it. How to respond with patience. How to trust what passes you by was never truly yours, and what’s meant for you will arrive in its own time.  To have s...