Farrah Nabella

How do you be positive all the time? It’s hard for me to do that.  This was a question that I get asked a lot. Now let me tell you a secret - it was never easy I developed it slowly.. over the years of growing through experience (both good and bad ones). The key is : Try your best to not let negativity consume you. Believe that for everything that happened.. it has its own hidden wisdoms behind it. Patience will make you tougher and wiser. Do not hold onto something too long, free your mind.. let go if you must, and let God handle the rest. Overcome your inferiority complex by believing in yourself more. Train yourself to see the good in everything, surround yourself with good friends and make sure you have a great support system. Stay close to them, and make sure they stay close to you. This was how I do it 😊

Letting go of someone you love, either romantically or platonically.. is one of the most difficult parts of life. Trying to mitigate with the pain every time you’re reminded of them is hard, I know. But remember that it’s a process, not a destination. You have to be patient, and the only way around it is through it. Reconnect with ppl who care for you will start to add meaning back into your life. Distance yourself, both physically and emotionally. Give yourself time to grieve, but do not take too long. We can’t control everything that happened in our lives, don’t we? Acceptance is key. Maybe it’s just not meant to be. Some of us think that holding on makes us strong, but sometimes.. it is letting go.