Farrah Nabella

  Patience is something we’re taught again and again — in how we move through life, how we treat others, and how we sit with the challenges we’re given. It took me a long time to understand this. I used to get so disheartened when things didnt go to plan in my head. I’m human at the end of the day, so of course I feel overwhelmed at times. I’ve learnt how to control it, but I’m also realising that suppressing emotions isn’t always the answer. Sometimes everything you hold in finds its way out when you least expect it. What I’ve learned is this : people, plans, and the tasks of this world will disappoint you no matter what. Not everything is meant to stay, no matter how much you want it to. And the sooner you accept it, the lighter life begins to feel. The real lesson isn’t avoiding disappointments — its learning how to manage it. How to respond with patience. How to trust what passes you by was never truly yours, and what’s meant for you will arrive in its own time.  To have s...

  taking a moment to just rest to stop worrying about what’s coming next. its been worked out. its coming our way. but we get so caught up with the thought of “but if it didnt worked out last time,  why would it worked out this time?” it didnt worked out that time because it was never supposed to. never worry about what you cant control,  never hold on to something that was never yours, you had to let it go. and you did that. so rest. rest knowing that everything is going to work out. rest knowing that you are light. rest knowing that your love endures.  that your love fights. that your love will be felt miles away. because that’s the kind of love that you have. and that’s the kind of love you deserved. so please rest. rest knowing who you are. please remember how beautiful you are.. before it was and even after it all. what’s meant for you, will never missed you. ♥️♥️♥️

as i get older, i find myself being more aware of : noticing how the people around me make me feel of no longer taking up space in places where i dont feel valued  of embracing the attractiveness of simplicity of having understanding and acceptance that most people are projecting and their actions are just a reflection of who they are listening more to the way my nervous system responds that the little things in life are in fact the big things how my life feels will always win over how my life looks that what i thought i once wanted no longer aligns and its okay there is always room for kindness you deserve nothing less embrace uncertainity and accept impermanence healing isn’t linear happiness was never in the hands of others. it was always about the peace, the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart, how you embrace the person you were becoming - it was always about you. what truly meant for you, will never missed you closure is not really important find peace in both th...

  through everything, i have found peace in the quietness of the life i had now.  protecting my privacy, setting boundaries, practicing the law of detachments, still open to new opportunities and people but within my own expenses that i feel like i am able to offer at that moment, not limiting myself of what i truly deserved, recognising the good and the bad, remaining calm and composed through every situation, learning and practicing self-love like no other. a little reminder to myself to keep going and be at peace with everything, knowing that dreams do come true, hardships will turn into ease, love can cure, broken hearts can be fixed, and reuniting with those we truly care about is close. you’re broken for a reason. Allah uses broken things beautifully. broken clouds pour rain, broken soils sets as fields, broken crop yields seeds,  broken seeds give life to new plants. so when you feel broken, rest assured. Allah is planning to utilise you for something great. have f...

    as i await your bespoke arrival,  i can say that Sabr has taught me many of the lessons that have henceforth enabled me to grow into the woman i have always wanted to be. Sabr has taught me to work on my flaws and accept the things that i cannot change. Sabr has allowed me to contain my efforts so that i am not exhausted when faced with the people that actually deserve it, and with words it may sound like an easy process but there is no ease without the prior hardships so we must be understanding. i have learnt to be grateful for my struggles and humble in my winning moments. a mindset like this has pushed me to fight for myself and especially for my inner child,  who gave everything to everyone in exchange of my fragmented past.  the goal is to reunite with my naseeb, to reconnect with Allah and find a home on our wayward path to Jannah. He will be the man that receives me in my best nature, and our love will be the standard that our children can look up to...

  these hands that were held over this heart,  to calm its quickened-pained rhythm.. even when it trembles on some days.  knowing that.. beyond the shadow of a doubt, in your heart of hearts, that when you trust Him and move forward..  He will open more beautiful doors for you.  for He is the al Fattah (the Opener). better days.. 🤍 stronger internally + wiser hopefully