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How doing less can change your life

  stop asking questions you dont want the answers to stop giving energy to conversations that go nowhere stop re-visiting the places that only remind you of who you used to be stop consuming any media that dampens your spirit stop engaging with people who drains your energy stop explaining to people who are committed to misunderstanding you stop trying to fix what was never yours to fix stop romanticising what consistently hurts you True peace is when you have got nothing to prove.  When your life is no longer a performance. And you dont look for approvals in people’s faces.  When your inner monologue shows up in your actions.  And you move in a way that feels honest to you.  And your world feels a bit quiet, but you dont feel lonely. Love yourself a bit more each day ❤️

what’s not meant for you will disappoint you thousand times until you understand

  Patience is something we’re taught again and again — in how we move through life, how we treat others, and how we sit with the challenges we’re given. It took me a long time to understand this. I used to get so disheartened when things didnt go to plan in my head. I’m human at the end of the day, so of course I feel overwhelmed at times. I’ve learnt how to control it, but I’m also realising that suppressing emotions isn’t always the answer. Sometimes everything you hold in finds its way out when you least expect it. What I’ve learned is this : people, plans, and the tasks of this world will disappoint you no matter what. Not everything is meant to stay, no matter how much you want it to. And the sooner you accept it, the lighter life begins to feel. The real lesson isn’t avoiding disappointments — its learning how to manage it. How to respond with patience. How to trust what passes you by was never truly yours, and what’s meant for you will arrive in its own time.  To have s...