2019 resolutions

So.. suddenly its already 2019. Time flies by quite fast, don't you think? Every new year, I'm sure every one has their own wishes and resolutions - me too, just like everyone else.

This year, I hope.. I wish.. and I pray..

1. To be stronger, much much stronger than the previous years - bcs I know life wouldn't get any easier as you grow older. I hope I can be more resilient in facing every shortcomings of life.

2. To be more matured - in every way of life. Especially in decision-making, and also in my actions.

3. To stay silent, if I have nothing nice to say. To be patient always, whenever I encounter something that wasn't very nice to me.

4. To take responsibilities more seriously, and not giving up on any opportunities if I was given the chance. To ensure that I do things diligently and wholeheartedly, with sincerity always.

5. To be grateful always, to say alhamdulillah (praise to Allah) more often.. and avoid any habits of complaining with what I have in life. To see things as a wider picture; for some ppl might not have the things that I have now - family, food, shelter, education, money.. may Allah protect us from being among those who were ungrateful to You..

6. To put up a smile always. I always believe that your smile will give a positive countenance that will make ppl feel comfortable around you. To treat others kindly always, bcs that's how I hope others would treat me as well.

7. To learn more, and as much as I can 💗 Wallahi, God knows how much I truly enjoy learning and studying.. I love learning new things, bcs I feel like myself is growing with every single knowledge that I've gained - no matter how small it was. Also, to always remember that studying is not solely for passing exams alone; bcs you'll carry the knowledge for the rest of your life as well.

8. To always be there for those who are in need, to offer help in every way I can if necessary. Remember, if you make things easy for the others.. Allah will make things easy for you too inshaAllah. And if you do good to the others, good will come to you too.

Now, the rest in the lists that are left are mostly my personal goals.. which I think is best to be kept as secret hehe. Hopefully I can achieve all these by the end of 2019 inshaAllah.

May this year be a good one! 💞

Translation : In the name of Allah.. Ya Allah, please make things easy for me.. and do not make it difficult. Oh Allah, let my affairs end with goodness. Ameen.

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soothing ur soft heart

taking a moment to just rest to stop worrying about what’s coming next. its been worked out. its coming our way. but we get so caught up with the thought of “but if it didnt worked out last time, why would it worked out this time?” it didnt worked out that time because it was never supposed to. never worry about what you cant control, never hold on to something that was never yours, you had to let it go. and you did that. so rest. rest knowing that everything is going to work out. rest knowing that you are light. rest knowing that your love endures. that your love fights. that your love will be felt miles away. because that’s the kind of love that you have. and that’s the kind of love you deserved. so please rest. rest knowing who you are. please remember how beautiful you are.. before it was and even after it all. what’s meant for you, will never missed you. ♥️♥️♥️

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