How to move on from someone?

Letting go of someone you love, either romantically or platonically.. is one of the most difficult parts of life. Trying to mitigate with the pain every time you’re reminded of them is hard, I know.

But remember that it’s a process, not a destination.

You have to be patient, and the only way around it is through it.

Reconnect with ppl who care for you will start to add meaning back into your life.
Distance yourself, both physically and emotionally.
Give yourself time to grieve, but do not take too long.
We can’t control everything that happened in our lives, don’t we?
Acceptance is key. Maybe it’s just not meant to be.

Some of us think that holding on makes us strong, but sometimes.. it is letting go.

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soothing ur soft heart

taking a moment to just rest to stop worrying about what’s coming next. its been worked out. its coming our way. but we get so caught up with the thought of “but if it didnt worked out last time, why would it worked out this time?” it didnt worked out that time because it was never supposed to. never worry about what you cant control, never hold on to something that was never yours, you had to let it go. and you did that. so rest. rest knowing that everything is going to work out. rest knowing that you are light. rest knowing that your love endures. that your love fights. that your love will be felt miles away. because that’s the kind of love that you have. and that’s the kind of love you deserved. so please rest. rest knowing who you are. please remember how beautiful you are.. before it was and even after it all. what’s meant for you, will never missed you. ♥️♥️♥️

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