a love letter for myself ❤️

I do not wish to doubt my own life experiences anymore.

Accepting things as they are because it is a form of self-love and i deserved peacefulness of mind and soul.

To be brave to do the right thing even though it can be a painful decision to make.

To always be content with His plans, to always see Him in everything.

To be a part of His perfect plans, not against it.

Not going to worry anymore on the things that is not under my control.

My heart and mental health matters most. And I’ll always put myself first before anyone else.

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The lovely paragraphs below are taken from @Aida Azlin, full credits goes to her ❤️ Leaving this here because its my favourite.

To be honest, I am still learning what love is, but I think I have a pretty good idea of what love is not.

True love does not judge, it does not weigh heavy with guilt or doubts, and neither does it come with frustration or confusion. It does not question nor make you question your worth, and it does not expect, force, overwhelm nor underwhelm. It is just perfectly balanced. Most of all, true love should never pull you away from Allah SWT because Allah SWT is the Source of all Love, so if someone or something removes you from al-Wadud, the Origin of Love itself, then something is wrong somewhere.

Allah SWT knows all of the different kinds of love that we need to thrive as a soul - the love for Rasulullah SAW, the love for Quran, the love for our parents and teachers, the love for our spouses and children, the love for humanity and life itself, and the list goes on - but all love should always start and end with Him. Because when He is out of the equation, then everything crumbles.

Love isn't love when you leave Allah SWT out.

This is important for us to remember because any other love that is not for His sake will drown us. It will exhaust us. And I do not wish for that on anyone, let alone on you, whom I love so very dearly. Love should nourish and protect you, not suck you dry and leave you hurt.

So, today I pray may Allah SWT grant us the clarity to see love as love, to love as we should love, and to remove everything else that does not stem from it. May Allah SWT continue to bless us with people who only love us for His sake, and may we carry out our roles as His Khalifah with only His Love powering us, Amin.

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soothing ur soft heart

taking a moment to just rest to stop worrying about what’s coming next. its been worked out. its coming our way. but we get so caught up with the thought of “but if it didnt worked out last time, why would it worked out this time?” it didnt worked out that time because it was never supposed to. never worry about what you cant control, never hold on to something that was never yours, you had to let it go. and you did that. so rest. rest knowing that everything is going to work out. rest knowing that you are light. rest knowing that your love endures. that your love fights. that your love will be felt miles away. because that’s the kind of love that you have. and that’s the kind of love you deserved. so please rest. rest knowing who you are. please remember how beautiful you are.. before it was and even after it all. what’s meant for you, will never missed you. ♥️♥️♥️

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